How to Ask for Monetary Wedding Gifts Only?

This is the 2nd time around for both of us. We're having a civil ceremony - only our offspring will be present.

There will be a small reception to follow for close family. We are not sending out formal invites, therefore, if asked, what would be an appropriate way to verbalize "monetary" gifts appreciated?

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by: Susanna Miles, The K.i.s.s Editor

Hi,

Honestly, I don't think there's a way to avoid the awkwardness around this. But, here are four suggestions that might help.

Tell one person and assume it will get passed around. Just make sure at least one person in every circle knows you'd prefer money.

Consider a honeymoon registry... so either people will give you money or put money towards a honeymoon. Who doesn't need a trip after the wedding!

Put only a few items on a registry in a store - who can't use a few towels or something of the like?

Consider letting people know gift certificates ... and mention your favorite stores.

Having said all that, I get it! Receiving or wanting monetary gifts is nice. And, you'll find that you'll get money from most people even with a registry.

But, it just isn't polite to tell people what to give you. The good thing about registries is that it gives people options while you still get what you want.

You can read my reviews on honeymoon registries below:
http://www.kiss-honeymoon-and-wedding-ideas.com/leading-online-honeymoon-gift-registry.html

I hope that helps.... and Happy Planning.

Happy Planning,
Susanna Miles
K.i.s.s Editor

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